Love isn’t about finding the best. It’s about building something real.
My Thought vs. Right Thought
| My Thought (Holding Me Back) | Right Thought (Shifting My Mindset) |
|---|---|
| “Love should be effortless.” | Real love takes work. If it’s easy, it’s probably not deep. |
| “I can always find someone better.” | You don’t find ‘better,’ you create it together. |
| “I shouldn’t have to change.” | Growth isn’t changing who you are, it’s evolving together. |
| “If the spark fades, it’s over.” | Love isn’t a firework. It’s a steady flame you keep alive. |
| “If it’s not perfect, I’m out.” | Flaws make it real. Perfection is a filter, not a foundation. |
| “I’ll be happy when I find ‘the one’.” | Happiness starts within. No one can complete you—only complement you. |
| “Relationships should feel exciting all the time.” | The strongest bonds are built in the calm, not just in the highs. |
Reality Check:
Love isn’t about finding the right person—it’s about choosing to build with them.
